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25 Things About Me (You May Not Know)

Posted by Rahul Desai
 
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One of my closest friends - Tanya - once ‘tagged’ me in a note (on Facebook) unfolding some of her secrets. The idea was to write some equal number of random things about me as well, tag her with all the other people I wanted to read these 25 things about me. And so it finally comes to a shape today! (In this Facebook-age, the better suited title would be "25 Things On My Mind".)

Here’s my story (barely random and significantly long - I spent almost an hour to list them all):

 

  1. I love reading. I read absolutely anything that comes handy. Of all, my favorite book is “Indian Muslims – Where Have They Gone Wrong?” by Dr Rafiq Zakaria. With all that in place, I feel my vocabulary is limited to a very small set of words.
  2. I have full faith in Indian government, their initiatives and efforts. I know the future is even brighter.
  3. I some times feel people (/Indians) not living in India should not be allowed to crib about issues in India. (If you can’t see the brighter side, be equally blind to the darker one.)
  4. I wish India and Pakistan were never separated. I would’ve loved supporting a cricket team with opening batsmen like Sachin Tendulkar and opening bowlers like Wasim Akram. (And Sania Mirza could marry Shoaib Malik with peace - without making any political news. Shashi Tharoor could also mind his own business.)About Me
  5. I hope Indians do equally great in other sports (than Cricket) in future; in Hockey to start with. We are better than China in many ways. Why not in Olympics then?
  6. I love Banana milkshake. Any day, any time. 
  7. The cook at my parents’ place is just great. But I specially go home, just that I can wake up to the tea my Mom makes.
  8. Pune is the best city I’ve ever lived in. I just wish the citizens had better traffic (and civic) sense.
  9. I don’t like pets – dog, cat, fish, birds, just any of them. They’re better off to their nature-defined habitat.
  10. Believe it or not, I’m quite shy. And I don’t lie, as far as possible. With the spread of world wide web and people’s momentous presence online (Facebook, Twitter, FourSquare, etc), I feel it’s practically impossible to lie about anything.
  11. My family’s my life and my friends are my life-support. No wonder I’ve survived not-so-pleasant phases of my life, so effortlessly.
  12. I’m quite selfish (and self-centered?) compared to my friends. I guess my friends know that too. They still love me!
  13. I owe my financial and social independence to my teachers (/trainers) and my employer. (My parents are my teachers. My sister, is like my mother.)
  14. I’m not a foodie. I can barely sense/differentiate tastes. I’m just not into junk-food and given a choice, I can live with all-boiled, no-spice food (satvik aahar) for the rest of my life.
  15. Something’s terribly wrong with the way I speak/talk. Somehow, on first, most people feel I’m arrogant/have an attitude problem.
  16. My likes of profession is pretty unrealistic. It's a mix of some random things I’m good at.
  17. I love writing with fountain pens. (It’s one of many other things I try and copy from my Father.)
  18. I am not superstitious. But there’s certainly some magic in the shooting stars.
  19. I have an OCD for hygiene – especially that in toilets, kitchen and the dining area. I guess I also have an acrophobia.
  20. I prefer: Facebook over Orkut, Tea over Coffee, Pune over Bombay/Bangalore/Surat.., Windows over Linux, Red Wine over White, Test-match over ODI/T20, Vada-pav over Burger, Scotch over Vodka/Rum/Beer, Animated over SciFi/Action flicks, House over Hip-hop music and Sambuca over Tequila.
  21. I believe in Karma and the ‘Karmic Law’.
  22. I hate cooking. I hate it more, when people expect that I should cook.
  23. It really surprises me that some people are still stuck to hard cash, and worse, they believe that plastic money/cheques are bad.
  24. Internet (on Mobile phone) is the best invention ever. Swimming is the best exercise ever.
  25. I do play Tabla and Harmonium. I’m formally trained in Indian Classical Music (vocal) and my personal favorites are Raag Kaafi and Bhairavi. I’ve turned to the west now. Starting with Saxophone.
  26. I sincerely feel people should wear helmet/seatbelt without any exceptions. We’ve lost some precious lives due to this ignorance in the past, and I hope everyone understands that her/his life is much more important than s/he thinks.
  27. I can’t compromise with my ‘space’. I get quite upset (and annoyed) if the entropy of my house changes. I love my freedom at my new ‘home’. But I do feel quite lonely on times.
  28. In my free time I like making random changes to my website. I’ll always be thankful to Pritesh (and Dharmesh bhai) for this great gift!
  29. I always over-do things, like I couldn’t limit it to ‘25’ (or '15' in Quick 15 Books...).


I’m a narcissist. I feel I possess a perfect human life, with no regrets for the mistakes in past. I’m blessed, in many ways.

But I really want more.  ;)



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How to deal with change?

Posted by Rahul Desai
 
"It takes a lot of courage to release the familiar and seemingly secure, to embrace the new. But there is no real security in what is no longer meaningful. There is more security in the adventurous and exciting, for in movement there is life, and in change there is power." Alan Cohen

“The key to change... is to let go of fear.”



Change’ as they say, is the only constant. It’s inevitable and it’s here to stay. So how do we go about living with changes (unpleasant, unwelcome in most cases)? I don’t have any magic mantra for that. My knowledge is limited to this webpage: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Change

However, one of my friends happened to find more. Here are some points from the email she forwarded. Thanks, Neha!


Most people appreciate change — as long as it's happening in someone else's life. We all admire those who face major challenges in their lives and grow from their experiences to become better and stronger people. How brave and exciting! What a terrific story! But when we face change in our own lives, we feel very different emotions: we feel doubt and fear, annoyance and anger, sadness and guilt.

The current economic downturn has forced many people to make major changes in their lives. Some have had to change jobs; many others have had to change their spending habits. But regardless of what the economy does, our lives change all the time, whether we like it or not. And if we want to be happy, we
have to accept this reality with some degree of calm and courage.

Change is called for whenever we're required by circumstances — both internal and external — to step out of our comfort zone. That's when we have to let go of our old familiar ways and customary habits. Sometimes this challenge comes in dramatic forms as when, for example, we're struck by a natural disaster or a
Changeserious illness. Sometimes there's less drama but there can be just as much trauma if, for example, we change jobs or decide to go back to school or start up a personal business. Of course, regardless of the size of the challenge, some people decide not to take control of the situation and they stay victims for life. Others, however, call on their inner strengths and find a way to come through better equipped to handle life's next round of challenges.

Let's look at a few concepts that can help you deal with change.

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You have what it takes. We all have the strength to meet our challenges. This is a birth gift that we all received. But the only way to find our strength is to accept the challenge and face down our fear of change.

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Get inspiration from others, but know that you have to meet your challenge on your own. It's fine to look to others for tips or for inspiration. If they can do it, so can you! But trying to copy what others have done to resolve their challenges may end up draining you instead of empowering you.

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Learn from your past. If you look back at your life, you'll see that you've faced plenty of challenges before. Now ask yourself some questions. What got me to change then? What skills did I use to deal with the challenge? How did I feel after I changed? What have I learned from that experience that I can use again?

    * You're going to
have to let something go. In order to bring something new into your life, you will have to let go of something you've grown accustomed to. If you want to start your own business, you're going to have to give up the security of the paycheck you've been getting. If you want to get healthier, you're going to have to let go of the pleasure you get from eating whatever you want. No matter how much you may want to fight this truth, change means giving up one thing in order to get something else.

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Take responsibility. The single most important element for a successful change is commitment. You have to accept that you can and will change, and that the choice to do so is up to you. You may not be able to control the outcome and you may have to make adjustments in your plans, but there is no one to blame if you don't make the effort yourself.

Makes sense?


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It's about helmeting right...

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If you care a bit about me (and me being alive), you must thank ‘Vega’ for saving my life (or for at least, saving the aashiq ka thobada from completely deforming). Vega is the helmet manufacturer, and one of their product is taking care of my Einstein brained head for more than two years now.


Some other incidents to jot here, apart from my own last Saturday, about a year and a half back, one fine evening I and Raghu (we all know Raghu very well, don’t we?) were sitting in our hostel-room (probably trying to synchronize some jazz over the network by playing it on two machines simultaneously and trying to create some unusual acoustic effect) when Vaibhav came rushing in. Vaibhav (Puri Goswami) lived just the next door, and he had returned from work (from his MS project-work). Instead of going to his room, he came in to us, and showed us his helmet and its left side. Then he told us the story how he was stuck in the traffic near Pune University circle and was going so slow to the left of the road (parallel to the footpath) and lost his control and fell down to his left. It was such a safe fall that his two-wheeler was all safe, and his entire body was equally fit- apart from the fact that his head had banged onto the edge of the footpath. It was such a hard hit that he actually lost what was happening and had to sit back by the road side for some time and then proceeded and reached hostel to tell us the story. The helmet saved us our precious friend, unlike the case about three and half years back when the same helmet could have saved many other things apart from two important lives.

Newspapers in every metro city in India give a daily report of people killed and injured in traffic accidents. As a response to this heightened awareness NGOs have come up in many cities to deal with this increasing urban epidemic of death and destruction. Police departments also hold road safety weeks, painting competitions, zero tolerance drives and demand greater powers to fine and punish. This has gone on for the last two decades. But, the killing and the maiming continues unabated.

In contrast with developed countries like United States, Europe and Australia, we don’t have many studies done in any city of India in which road accident data have been analysed according to scientific norms in vogue around the world. Not a single city in India has a well formulated scientific process through which data gets analysed according to methods which are likely to be beneficial. No police department in India has a collaboration with road safety experts on a continuing basis.

So, how do we start? First of all, we should select practical measures which are known to work in all situations and apply them locally. Second, we need to set up systems for collection and analysis of road accident data on a scientific basis suited for our socio-economic conditions. Then, these data can be used to fine tune policies and set up long term safety programmes.

Examples of policies which work internationally are, compulsory use of helmets and headlights by two-wheeler riders, making small vehicles like bicycles and carts more conspicuous by use of reflectors on all sides and painting them yellow or orange, use of seatbelts by car occupants, and limiting vehicle speeds below 50 km/h on urban arterial roads. Helmet use is mandated by the Motor Vehicle Act in India. However, each state has to notify it for it to be enforced. Most of the states in India have been criminally negligent in not doing so. Studies done in Delhi, Chennai and Bangalore show that a vast majority of two-wheeler riders and parents of teenagers are in favour of the law. The law is very easily enforceable. This measure alone will reduce deaths by 20-30% among two-wheeler riders.

When two-wheeler riders keep their headlights on during the day time, it does not help them, but it makes them more conspicuous for other vehicle drivers. This measure was found to be effective in Europe almost two decades ago in reducing fatalities by 10%. Malaysia and Singapore have also introduced this law. Studies from Malaysia show a 15% reduction in deaths. The measure does not cost anything and can be implemented tomorrow. Helmet and daytime headlight use by two-wheelers if enforced throughout the country may save 4,000 -5,000 lives and 60,000-100,000 serious injuries annually. If all bicycles in India had reflectors on wheels, in front and the back, and if all of them were painted yellow or orange, they would be much more visible. This measure would save another few thousand lives, would not cost much, and can be implemented easily.

Fifty percent or more of road deaths in cities involve pedestrians. A pedestrian hit by a car at 30 km/h has less than 10% chance of dying, whereas this probability increases to more than 80% at 50 km/h. This is why all European cities are limiting vehicle speeds to less than 30 km/h in residential and shopping areas by use of well designed speed breakers, narrowing streets, and encouraging dead end roads. On arterial roads speeds are limited to 50 km/h with light controlled pedestrian crossings at frequent intervals. We are encouraging speeds by provision of flyovers and increasing distances between traffic lights. This can only result in increase in accidents. Underground and over ground pedestrian facilities do not work unless accompanied by escalators and ensuring safety of women and children.

Seat belt use by car occupants decreases deaths by 20-30%. But no where in the world do a majority of people use seat belts unless the same is made compulsory. However, this measure will help car users only who constitute less than 5 percent of total road deaths in India. It is high time our policy makers and vehicle manufacturers gave more importance to science in road safety rather than PR for road safety. (Source: Last some paragraphs are from an article, the first/best result as per Google’s PageRank™. I gracefully copied and shamelessly pasted some content in here. However, I suggest you to explore your access to the World Wide Web or the local authorities for better, detailed and more statistical information on this. Do share it with me.)

Talking of accidents and fault, it doesn’t necessarily have to be either party’s mistake as the cause of the situation. However, casualties (if any) have certainly to do with someone’s mistake (carelessness). Helmet on two-wheeler (same as seat-belts in car) are as important act as doing any other activity to ride the machine, at all.

My point is to take care of the precautions, since any casualty with your life (or mine, or that of anyone else) may not make the greatest difference to the world, but it may – to the people who are the world to us. Time to tighten up the responsibility checks!



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Once An A$# Always An A#$!

Posted by Vaibhav Goswami
 
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The same applies to our very dear Jammy as people call him, such a spineless creature he is, which he had been proving in the past and has proved it yet again.

Remember The GREAT WALL of India Rahul Dravid doing wicket-keeping under the influence of former captain Ganguly? The same guy under the influence of ‘someone’ from Australia as I would say is in process of ditching none except the person with whom he has travelled so far so good...

I am not a great supporter of Saurav Ganguly, but still I feel that the departure is unfortunate as far as Indian cricket is concerned. There could have been a better Greg Chappell and Rahul Dravidway to end the things. As it has always been the trend, that the selectors most of the time suck… and so did they this time. Moreover swearing on their children in public? WHAT THE HECK??

Stats if we see, Ganguly is impeccable though his performance in the recent time and has been up to the mark. And how can one forget Ganguly dancing down the track and hitting sixes to Murli... one of the things that is most amazing in the proceedings has been the silence that the senior players have adopted. As far as I feel, Sehwag may just be the next one after Ganguly!!

But our present skipper is a silent dumb a$# is what I feel. I am not sure if he has been given any threats or so by the big daddy, but he should remember one thing that he could never replace the aggressiveness of the TIGER.

I will say it again that I am Not a BIG TIME supporter of Ganguly. But he does deserve a better exit than this. If this is the way it is done, this seriously is a black spot to the community which accepts cricket as their religion!!!


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Feel Like GOD!!!

Posted by Vaibhav Goswami
 
This ad for the latest Bajaj Avenger 180cc DTSi, has captured a lot of attention. With a caption “Feels Like God”, there is a lot of talk going on about it. It’s a bit late to write a review, since the ad came out almost a year ago, but considering the fact that even agency FAQs has not written anything about it, I think I am well in time with the review.

The ad is targeted at the executive segment and Bajaj has always got it right with this segment. First they did it with Bajaj Pulsar, their caption “Definitely Male” along with the excellent vehicle made sure that Pulsar would be the market leader in this segment. Other automobile manufacturers are trying in vain to dethrone Pulsar.

Avenger also follows the Pulsar way, trying to get to the attitude of their target Bajaj Avengersegment. There are no celebrities, no sexy female with her seducing looks, no specifications of the bike, no advantages regarding fuel efficiency, nothing. Just the bike, the guy and the way he feels while driving it. Simple enough.

The ad starts with a macho guy, with a stub, wearing a black T-Shirt and a black jeans, driving his Bajaj Avenger through the roads of Ladakh.
As he is driving, he remembers his dad slapping him, which is shown in black and white. As the ad comes back to the present, the guy takes preventive action and the voice over says, “I forgive my dad”.

Next he sees a woman getting married, which is showed in B&W, and as he comes back to the present, he looks at his ring finger of his left hand and the voice over says, “I forgive women”. Now his boss throws a pile of paper on him and fires him. He ducks while driving while imagining that. The voice over says, “I forgive my boss”.

He encounters a hole in the middle of the road, and as his bike jumps out of the hole, he looks back at it, and the voice over says, “I forgive the government”.

The next scene that he remembers about is that of his barber about to give him a shave. Coming back to the present, he licks at the scar below his nose and the voice over says, “I forgive my barber”. As he drives along, he sees a local who was sitting and weeding the path. The local gets up, arcs his back to relieve the pain, and the voice over says, “I feel……. I feel like….”.

Then he looks up to the sky, while the voice over says, “I feel like god”.

This ad is just too cool and “I forgive my dad” and “I forgive the government”, were too good. No wonder this had provoked many of us to go for the bike even!!!


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The Girl With A Kid

Posted by Neha Goel
 
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So, let me begin by putting in the things very clearly for the "GUYS" community..... What we(gals) don't understand is, how does it make a diff. to tell a person or keep it to urself, that u find urself going crazy over her.....

Cos for us...It is the same thing to be in love and to speak out aloud not only to the person in question but to the whole world...dat yes, Now i am truly, madly, happily and most enjoybly in love with this Man.

Now, the Question arises, what's the need to make it known to the public..dat you love so n so person....See the reason behind this is, just dat the gals take it as an honour to anounce dat they have finally met a person who likes her not for what 'She looks like' but "How she thinks", dat it does not make any diff. to the person of "What his friends think of his gal", but he truly knows "What Importance she holds in his life."

Now, for all this to happen the gal, atleast needs a re-assurance from the guy, i.e. "He needs to verbally tell it to her, that my dear darling, 'I love you' !!"

so, what do all my friends in the male fraternity have to say abt this....I am really waiting for some inputs from u all...


PriSpeak:

The crux is not this whether one declares this on a stage, on a microphone, in front of audience, or if he does that in a closed room, sitting and playing a soft hummable number in his solace. The point is where is the need of declaring this formally? Don't underestimate the power of silence. Sometimes unsaid is more powerful and enticing than when said. What i personally feel is that professing my love would be the difficult most part of my life, why? Let's see how i feel when i propose to a girl: i feel a bit nervous about how she would be feeling; i feel a bit weird, what if i could not say the exact thing which i rehearsed for two hours now? what if she says no, and i end as her good friend, instead of what i consider as the extension of friendship? what i feel is that this particular emotion is the extension of friendship. It is something like a ladder, and one can not jump on a ladder avoiding a fall! What further restricts me is a bound by a society which prevents me to vocate my expressions, further more stopped by the feeling that how would it sound, revealing myself in front of someone else, it brings a sense of insecurity.

Call it male ego (it depends on your sweet will), but this is what i feel about expressing this very complex emotion called love.



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